Spotting a player by his online dating profile is no easy feat! Cyber Dating Expert and author of the best-selling online dating book, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online, Julie Spira, answers women’s perpetual question: How can I tell if he’s looking for a relationship or just a hookup? Watch:
Text messaging has become so popular, and it’s a fun and flirty way to stay in touch with people, but if he’s only asking you out for your dates via text, it’s not a good sign. He might just be looking for one of those quickies.
Be careful of those who cancel at the last minute. Chances are you’re one of many girls, and he got a better offer.
If you’re really into someone and he’s into you, he’s going to want to see you on both Friday and Saturday nights. If you only get one night and this happens more than once, you’re not the only one.
Be careful when somebody schedules dates for late at night. If someone really wants to meet you for dessert at 9 o’clock, somebody else was his dinner date.
Tell us: What are other tell-tale signs that he only wants a physical relationship? He won’t introduce you to his family or friends? He doesn’t pay much attention to you when you’re speaking?
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